'PRAY PLEASE FOR ME - FAMILY & RELATIONSHIP'

PRAY PLEASE FOR ME - FAMILY & RELATIONSHIP

Discussion about all concepts of alternative healing.

tina (207.59.112.2) -

If you have time, please pray for me (thanks). On 4/8/07, I helped my fiancé, Jeff (who resides in Canada), I helped Jeff to find God & put God back into his life. When I first met Jeff, he admitted he was “depressed” and had walked away from God. I talked Jeff into returning to Church to receive his blessings and to ask God for forgiveness. He wasn’t speaking to his mother and I told Jeff this was wrong …. I told Jeff to contact his mother and to talk to his mother because the bible says “honor your mother and father.” Jeff had cut off all communication with his mother; I worked on getting Jeff to start talking to his mother for (all good reasons) and over the past few months, Jeff now talks (every night) to his mother because of me encouraging him. Also, as of today, Jeff attends church in Canada every Sunday (hasn’t missed a Sunday). Jeff started to receive his blessings and he seemed to be a very happy person and Jeff isn’t depressed any more and I was very happy for Jeff. I spent many long days and nights on the telephone encouraging and giving Jeff support. On 8/3/07, abruptly, Jeff broke off our engagement, told me he did not need me anymore in his life because he had his family and friends (these words from Jeff mentally hurt me badly), he said his he had monies, and Jeff said God is blessing him LOTS. Me being a Christian, I tried talking to Jeff, but he said, I was no good for him, he said he wanted me out of his life (end of story). When I tried to talk to him Jeff would be very rude on telephone to me and most of the time hang phone up in my face. One night, he telephoned and said he needed me; his ex-wife had kidnapped his daughter and he needed someone to talk to him because he was loosing his mind and needed to advice. Me, being a fool and sucker, I took time (once again) to help Jeff through another situation in his life. I got Jeff through this bad situation in his life by encouraging him to pray and talk to God, etc. Days following this incident, I tried to talk to Jeff about (us as a couple) to mend our relationship and to get back together as a couple but Jeff told me again, “his life was going good for him and why does he need me back in my life”? This time, I was devastated and hurt mentally badly because this was my ex-fiancé who I thought loved me and he told me to “get out of his life for the 2nd time.” On 9/12/07 I called him because he had cut off all communication with me…and I ask him to call me back at home when he had the time. Even though Jeff is hateful, rude, and verbally abusive to me all the time. Last night, he told me to “only listen to him talk” because he was calling me on his time and monies. I listened to him tell me that … he will never marry me, he said he has his more money than he can count now, he has his family back together again, he has many friends, and he is very happy “without me in his life”. He told me to leave him alone because he has found friends in the church who he can talk to; he also told me I have no life and he told me … he is glad HE was able to get himself back to church; He said he is very blessed now with monies, friends, family and does not need me EVER in his life again and he hung up the telephone in my face. I cried all night on 9/12/07, hurting very bad inside because I do not know why Jeff has walked out of my life abruptly and treated me so badly; It seems now that Jeff has his life going good for him and he is not depressed … and ME, the person who helped him, he DUMPED me and walked out of my life abruptly for no reason at all! I hope the God has something in his plans for me. I am a good person but very SAD! PLEASE PRAY THAT GOD OPENS JEFF HEART … I WANT MY FIANCE to return to me. God has to step into this situation because I have done all that I can do and I am tired. I was there for Jeff when nobody else was there for Jeff. I pray that God please talk to Jeff. I don’t know what I am doing wrong but I am very SAD because I think God is answering everybody’s prayers but mine and I don’t know why? Thank-you for your time for praying for me.

Comment #1 Bim from Wyattsville -

This really irks me.

If Jeff desires to "find God" he will do so. It is not any of the rest of ours business anything about Jeff's desires to find God (OR NOT).

If Jeff is your fiancé and has a different view on religion that you... YOU are the one that best examine YOURSELF. Forcing Jeff to change his views on religion (or anything else) is sure to get your upcoming marriage off to a terrible start.

Comment #2 Rose from God's green earth -

The Lord works in mysteries ways. You did your Christian duty. Now it is time to let him go. I'm sorry to say it so bluntly. You did a good a thing only for it to turn and crush you. I feel your pain in the words you wrote. Take comfort, God has removed him from your life and will open another door, with even better on the other side. Be patient and hold on to your faith.

Besides this Jeff sound like a real jerk! He didn't recognize what a true treasure you obviously are to be so devoted to him and to your faith.

Don't let this person take your faith. Hold on to it. God will see you through. I have all confidence that he has better than "Jeff" in your future.

I will pray for you!

Have a blessed day,

Rose

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